How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)
Mar 26, 2021 · Loser’s mindset and all of that. I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul. Feeling like …
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The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success April 26, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Sex & Dating
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I’m Offering 1-on-1 Coaching Mentorship Again! (Limited Time Only)
Nov 13, 2023 · I have massive plans for the Kill Your Inner Loser project, and I’m super excited for this next chapter. If you’d like to support me and help this community grow into something …
Autistic or Awkward? How to Date Without Masking Who You Are
Nov 15, 2025 · If you’re an autistic guy, you’ve probably learned to hide who you are when it comes to dating. You’ve been told you’re too blunt, too quiet, too intense, too weird. So you …
Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do.
December 4, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do. I’d stare at my phone for twenty minutes debating whether “hey :)” was too eager or …
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DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY & HIS TEAM You know you’re capable of achieving more than you’re currently getting. You know you could do better, be better, strive for more, and show the …
Musings of a Non-Completionist 3: Why I Write for This Site
This is a follow-up to Musings of a Non-Completionist 2: The Hustle. Read that first. I started this site just over a year ago, and it’s been an incredibly fulfilling journey so far. I’ve met some …
The World is Cynical – So I Became a Hope Merchant.
My mentor Chris from Good Looking Loser wrote an article called “Relax, you’ll eventually get pussy,” and I must have read it a thousand times. Literally. It was my northern star when I was …